6Apr 2008
BEING PROACTIVE

Who are
you and why you become who you are ?
As we
grow up, we are fundamentally influenced to a different degree by the
following conditions:
1.
Genetic makeup;
2.
Psychic and cognitive behavioural influence e.g parents; and
3.
Environment- which we are born into.
Researchers look at animals’ social behavior and look for semblance in
humans in order to draw certain conclusions.
However, unlike animals, human beings have the freedom to choose which
implies :
Behaviours =f(decisions)
PRO-ACTIVE PEOPLE
We say
that we are responsible for our lives- taken apart- means response and
ability- our ability to respond appropriately in the face of a decision and
decision process. This response is linked to initiative and which over time
develop into a habit taking initiative (of being pro-active).
Proactive people do not blame others for their failure, rather on the
contrary, they recognize that their state of affairs is the result of their
choices and they look for answers in themselves first.
For example, if
relationship breakdown, they look at themselves if they have a problem in
relating to others.
For example, if they cannot hold on to a job or perform
in their employment/job, they look for answers in the way they work.
Many
characters in the bible such as Noah of old have shown us that we need not
be conditioned or controlled by our culture, racial divides and community.
Noah build the ark in spite of ridicule. We can be different and not go
with the flow. In this consumerism age, we can decide to live thriftily. We
can expand beyond our limitations –we can be proactive and not limited
physically, emotionally, spiritually. In the case of Joseph, he did not
allow the prison to limit his ability.
In real
life, we also see in countries with the four seasons, the weather may have a
psychological impact on people’s activities and situations- the gloomy
autumn sky may lower the morale.
If we
choose to be proactive, however, we can decide to be the best we can be and
refused to be hindered by our background and conditions in the past, in the
present or in future.
REACTIVE PEOPLE
Reactive tended to be defensive and tended to be more affected by the
environment to the extent of helplessness. We hear them saying - there is
nothing I can do!
This
group of people need to be careful so as not to imagine/ exaggerate the
problems as in Proverbs 26:13-15.
Our
tentative conclusion is that Proactive people have tended to utilize the
Resource and Initiative ( R & I) more often and some studies have shown that
initiative alone can have a marked 5000% on the results/ success.
This
brings us to the next issue of load vs burden. If people are not trained to
carry their own loads, they will be a burden to others whether in the
church, at work or even in the family, or vice versa, others load can become
a burden to you. We need to teach people to be proactive to take initiative
and carry their own loads thereby lightening the burdens on others.

13 Apr 2008 JEPHTHAH-FROM
VICTIM TO VICTORY
Bible
also reflect failures of people. Out of such as these, there are lessons for
us. The key verses are in Judges 11:1-11 where we look at the biblical
character Jephthah.
Judges 11
1 Jephthah the Gileadite was a mighty warrior. His father was
Gilead; his mother was a prostitute.
2 Gilead's wife also bore him sons, and when they were grown up,
they drove Jephthah away. "You are not going to get any inheritance in our
family," they said, "because you are the son of another woman."
3 So Jephthah fled from his brothers and settled in the land of Tob,
where a group of adventurers gathered around him and followed him.
4 Some time later, when the Ammonites made war on Israel,
5 the elders of Gilead went to get Jephthah from the land of Tob.
6 "Come," they said, "be our commander, so we can fight the
Ammonites."
7 Jephthah said to them, "Didn't you hate me and drive me from my
father's house? Why do you come to me now, when you're in trouble?"
8 The elders of Gilead said to him, "Nevertheless, we are turning to
you now; come with us to fight the Ammonites, and you will be our head over
all who live in Gilead."
9 Jephthah answered, "Suppose you take me back to fight the
Ammonites and
the LORD gives them to me—will I really be your head?"
10 The elders of Gilead replied, "The LORD is our witness; we will
certainly do as you say."
11 So Jephthah went with the elders of Gilead, and the people made
him head and commander over them. And he repeated all his words before the
LORD in Mizpah.
1. Born or
grow up in uncomfortable circumstances
Jephthah speaks of people who are born into this world under very difficult
circumstances like those with physical limitations and disabilities, health
issues, orphans, in poverty, alcoholic parents, broken families, divorced
parents, disgrace and other traumatic experiences.
Jephthah was born out of a sinful relationship- in a certain sense
illegitimate. Jephthah grew up with the stigma and sense of disgrace, very
much beyond his control. Children cannot choose their parents and hence he
could not change his circumstances.
2. Reaction of the world
What
would make situation worse is the way the world react. Besides the shame, it
was tougher and harder for Jephthah, even the entire community treated him
like a moral filth and drove him away.
In our
own lives, we do come across situation where we may be least favoured,
rejected, felt least talented, depressed, lonely, felt pain and anguish,
bitterness . Some even to the extent of being angry with God and questioning
God.
3. How do we
respond
Instead
of revenge- Jephthah choose to focus on other things. He refused to be
controlled by the circumstances and in the end he rose above the situation.
In spite of the stigma, he strive harder.
Just
like Jephthah, God can turn a situation around – our sadness into joy. But
we must first learn to forgive, have faith and trust in God’s purpose.
Throughout history, we have seen people born in and under adverse
circumstances rising above their situation to excel, transforming form
ordinary to extraordinary such as:
Washington – slave background
Thomas
Edison- deaf
Admiral
Nelson- blind in one eye
Lincoln- born of illiterate parents
Robert
Louise Stevenson- tuberculosis
Julius
Caesar - epilepsy
Pope
Alexander- hunchback
Are we
walled in? If so, we need to crush the walls and walk through the ruins.
Life
before us is like the sea, whilst everybody have their boats, we need to ask
God for a boat or better still to part the sea and make a way for us.
We need
to trust God and be ready to forgive and respond like Jephthah
4. God can
make it a success
Helen
Keller could not see and hear, and yet she was able to graduate with
honours..etc. We see the grace of God in her life.
Out of
the study of 413 gifted people who achieve greatness, there is one thing
common amongst 392 of them. They all have gone through obstacles in life and
subject to ridicule and other people’s negative judgementse.g Fred
Astaire..etc
Success
depends on how we overcome the obstacles. At times, God have to take us out
of our comfort zones- in fact push us out, in order that we can bring glory
to Him.

20
Apr 2008 ARE
YOU DRIFTING
Brother Danny
Like
drinking water needs pipe to bring it to where it needs to be and the faucet
to open its flow. God’s living water also requires vessels and God uses
different vessels - human vessels and sometimes God work through the most
unlikely vessels.
In the
study of the bible, you can name and describe all the unlikely characters
that God uses at different times. Moses cannot speak and has no patience,
David’s armor did not fit him, Jacob the liar, Abraham too old, Jonah ran
away form God, Elijah was burnt out, Jeremiah was depressed, Noah was
drunk..etc. In the work of God, there is no interview and often no financial
gain. The appointment by God is not on hire and fire.
Drift
as known to children is a driving technique in PC game like Need for Speed.
As an example of drift, there are 2 fishermen fishing in a part of the
river, they are so absorbed in their activity, that the next thing they
realized is that their boat have drifted close to a dangerous spot where the
water flows over the dam, it was too late. They lost their lives because
they were not vigilant and drifted to tragedy.
Drift
is also mentioned in the bible in Hebrews 2:1
1We
must pay more careful attention, therefore, to what we have heard, so that
we do not drift away.
Are you
drifting- we want to look at several things concerning drifting:
Danger of drifting away from the Lord;
Things to do about drifting;
Signs common to drifting; and
Remedies against drifting.
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Danger of drifting
Drifting requires no effort, it may be unconscious and we are unaware. By
doing nothing, we can drift also. We can understand this by looking at the
waves and its undercurrents. Beneath the calm on the surface of the sea,
there may be strong undercurrents below it ( especially at night). We can
also understand drifting by looking at rivers/streams in the mountains, the
water always drift downstream.
Going
against the tide requires effort and going upstream is like growing in
faithfulness as in 2nd Peter 1:5
5For this very reason, make every
effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge;
When we
do nothing, as in drifting, there is a danger that we will fall back, go
downwards and the speed downstream always increases as much as the dangers.
Before long, we hear the noises and sound of the waterfall or the gushing
water of the dam and there is no return.
To
avoid drifting, we need to anchor ourselves and have a reference such as
rocks lest we drift into the open waters where we become disoriented and the
dangers increase. Even boats drifting in the open seas can be a hazard to
other vessels at sea. Just as when we lose sight of the Lord, we risk
drifting further away from the Lord, when we start to care less about what
we do.
Even
parents have the spiritual responsibility,
4Fathers,
do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and
instruction of the Lord.
The
danger of drifting is real and this lead us to the next point- how do we
escape from its danger, as warned in the bible in Heb 2 :1-3:
1We must pay more careful attention,
therefore, to what we have heard, so that we do not drift away.
2For if the message spoken by angels
was binding, and every violation and disobedience received its just
punishment,
3how shall we escape if we ignore
such a great salvation? This salvation, which was first announced by the
Lord, was confirmed to us by those who heard him.
Common
signs of drifting
We must
first assess and check ourselves in several areas where we may succumb to
drifting:
1.
Diminishing Desire to study God’s word
We must
study God’s word, study God ‘s word. We can understand the origin, purpose,
direction for a joyful and useful life and also our destiny in the Word
of God.
Psalm 1
1
Blessed is the man
who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked
or stand in the way of sinners
or sit in the seat of mockers.
2
But his delight is in the law of the LORD,
and on his law he meditates day and night.
3
He is like a tree planted by streams of water,
which yields its fruit in season
and whose leaf does not wither.
Whatever he does prospers.
4
Not so the wicked!
They are like chaff
that the wind blows away.
5
Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment,
nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous.
6
For the LORD watches over the way of the righteous,
but the way of the wicked will perish.
We may
drift when we lapsed in our prayer life.
Mark 1 :35
Jesus Prays in a Solitary Place
35Very early in the morning, while it
was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary
place, where he prayed.
Mark 6:46
46After leaving them, he went up on a
mountainside to pray.
2.
Diminishing Desire to be with God’s people
When
the desire is not there to be in the presence of brethren and fellowship in
the house of God. Instead, they prefer to be in the companionship of the
people of the world.
Psalm 122:1
1 I rejoiced with those who said to
me,
"Let us go to the house of the LORD."
In our
fellowship, we need to do more - edify one another and be of service to
another in the church.
Heb 3:13
13But encourage one another daily, as
long as it is called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's
deceitfulness.
3.
Diminishing Desire to share the gospel
Once we
were on fire for Christ, after many years, this desire to share the joy
dies out. We need to be provoked, check and self assess. Are we increasing
our desire for worldly things and not giving importance to spiritual
matters. Paul warns us against worldly focus and loving the world- by
renewing the mind be transformed.
The
consequences of drifting
Our
consciousness becomes numb and suffers paralysis. We are no longer
sensitive. We step out of God’s will and plan for us and we lose the
ability to listen to him and heed the Word. We also suffer internally
(ourselves) and externally ( those close to us)- affects our spouse,
children, your work, negative impact on others. It grieves God’s heart when
we are on the shipwreck of life.
Remedies for avoiding drift
Being
close to God is applicable to our living and is the best remedy against
drift.
1. Keep
rowing.
Be diligent and keep
abounding in the Lord. As Paul says, forgetting the past and keep pressing
forward.
2nd Peter 1:5-8
5For this very reason, make every
effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge;
6and to knowledge, self-control; and
to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness;
7and to godliness, brotherly
kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love.
8For
if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you
from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus
Christ.
2nd Peter 1:10
10Therefore, my brothers, be all the
more eager to make your calling and election sure. For if you do these
things, you will never fall.
2.
Watch for undercurrents
Currents of time
Time is
always an issue and doing God’s work also put pressure on time
availability..
Gal
6:9
9Let
us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a
harvest if we do not give up.
Currents of familiarity
We are
too familiar and there is no more excitement in God’s work that we are
called to do.
Currents of society
We
faced the tides of modern society, plastic Christianity, distractions,
materiality, and we need to go back to the simplicity of the Lord.
Currents of daily concerns
We
faced constant pressure of modern living, paying the bills, feeding the
families, children’s education, spouses needs..etc. Just like the seed
amongst the thorns.
Luke
8 :14
14The
seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on
their way they are choked by life's worries, riches and pleasures, and they
do not mature.
3.
Expect to go against the tide
The
tide carries us away. Hence, we have to be ever watchful of the following
lest we get carried away:
Popularity- our intention is wrong
Peer
Pressure- we go with the world
Praise-
our motives becomes blurred
Weariness- Having no time and no energy
Neglect
– not to neglect the Word and the Work
Indifference- could care for the things of God
4.
Having strong anchors
We need
to be rooted and grounded in Christ’s love, anchored by the 4 cables – of
love, hope, faith and service.

27
Apr 2008


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